The first year of marriage is beautiful and surprising: two lives learning to become one, joy mixed with the work of adjusting to each other. These verses are for newlyweds, to build your marriage on the God who invented it and to help love grow deep from the start.
What God says over newlyweds
“Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labour. For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow: but woe to him that is alone when he falleth; for he hath not another to help him up. Again, if two lie together, then they have heat: but how can one be warm alone? And if one prevail against him, two shall withstand him; and a threefold cord is not quickly broken.”
The two shall become one flesh; a new family begins.
“Charity suffereth long, and is kind; charity envieth not; charity vaunteth not itself, is not puffed up, Doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil; Rejoiceth not in iniquity, but rejoiceth in the truth; Beareth all things, believeth all things, hopeth all things, endureth all things.”
Above all, put on love, the bond of perfect unity.
“With all lowliness and meekness, with longsuffering, forbearing one another in love; Endeavouring to keep the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace.”
Unless the Lord builds the house, the builders labor in vain.
“And if it seem evil unto you to serve the LORD, choose you this day whom ye will serve; whether the gods which your fathers served that were on the other side of the flood, or the gods of the Amorites, in whose land ye dwell: but as for me and my house, we will serve the LORD.”
What God has joined together, let no one separate.
Where this all leads
The best marriage advice is one word: Jesus. Put Him at the center, and the two of you become three-strand strong, a cord not easily broken. You will not love each other perfectly, but He loves you both perfectly and can teach you to forgive, serve, and delight in one another. Build your new home on Him and it will stand.
Lord, thank You for the gift of my spouse and this new life together. Teach us to love each other patiently and to forgive quickly. Be the center of our home and the third cord that keeps us strong. Grow us closer to You and to each other. In Jesus name, amen.
You were never meant to walk this alone
The family here will pray with you, and you can hear how Christ has met others in the same place.
Ecclesiastes 4:9-12 (a threefold cord is not quickly broken) and Colossians 3:14 (put on love) are ideal for newlyweds, along with 1 Corinthians 13.
How can we build a strong marriage biblically?
By putting God at the center (Psalm 127:1, Ecclesiastes 4:12), loving with patience and kindness (1 Corinthians 13), forgiving readily (Ephesians 4:32), and committing to serve the Lord together (Joshua 24:15).