A hard question, faced honestly
Is God Angry With Me?
For anyone who trusts Jesus, the Bible's answer is startling: there is therefore now no condemnation to them which are in Christ Jesus. God's settled disposition toward his children is not simmering anger but delight; he will rejoice over thee with joy, he will rest in his love. He is described as slow to anger and plenteous in mercy. If you are carrying a picture of God as perpetually disappointed in you, that picture is not the God of the Bible, and it is not the God Jesus revealed.
“There is therefore now no condemnation to them which are in Christ Jesus, who walk not after the flesh, but after the Spirit.”Romans 8:1
“The LORD thy God in the midst of thee is mighty; he will save, he will rejoice over thee with joy; he will rest in his love, he will joy over thee with singing.”Zephaniah 3:17
“The LORD is merciful and gracious, slow to anger, and plenteous in mercy.”Psalm 103:8
Let's not dodge it
Many people carry a low, constant dread that God is annoyed with them, often shaped by a harsh parent, a shaming religion, or their own guilt. That dread is heavy and real, and it will not be lifted by simply being told to cheer up. The Bible does take sin seriously, and it does speak of God's righteous anger against evil. So the honest answer is not that God is indifferent to wrong, but that his heart toward those who come to him is far kinder than the anxious imagine.
How Christians have answered
Scripture holds two truths without letting either collapse. God is genuinely opposed to evil, because he is good and love always opposes what destroys. And yet, for those who turn to him, his anger is not the last word or the defining one. At the cross, the judgment our sin deserved fell on Jesus, so that God now relates to believers as a loving Father, not an angry judge. He disciplines his children, as any good parent does, for their good, but never out of rejection. His posture toward the returning is the father in the parable, running to embrace the child who came home.
Where it leads
If you want to know how God feels about you, look at the cross, where his response to your sin was to bear it himself rather than let it stand between you. That is not the act of a God looking for reasons to be angry with you; it is the act of a God who went to the furthest lengths to be reconciled to you. Whatever you have done, his arms are open. Come home, and you will find not a scowl but a welcome. His love toward you was settled before you got it right.
Questions people ask
But doesn't the Bible talk about the wrath of God?
It does, as God's righteous opposition to evil, because a good God cannot be indifferent to what destroys people. But for those who trust Jesus, that judgment fell on him at the cross, so that God now relates to them as a loving Father. His anger is against evil, not simmering resentment toward his children.
I feel like God is disappointed in me. Is that true?
That feeling usually reflects our own guilt or a harsh image of God more than the God of the Bible, who is slow to anger, delights in his children, and runs to welcome the returning. Bring the feeling honestly to him and let his mercy, not your shame, define the relationship.