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The Prodigal Son and You

Luke 15:20

Of all the stories Jesus told, none has reached more wanderers than the one about a son who left. It is often called the parable of the prodigal son, but it might better be called the parable of the running father, because the heart of it is not the boy's rebellion but the father's welcome. If you have ever felt like the one who took what was good and wasted it, who ended up somewhere you never meant to be, who wondered whether there was any way back, then this story is not just an old parable. It is a mirror, and it is an invitation, and the father in it is God, and He is looking down the road for you.

“And he arose, and came to his father. But when he was yet a great way off, his father saw him, and had compassion, and ran, and fell on his neck, and kissed him.”Luke 15:20

“But the father said to his servants, Bring forth the best robe, and put it on him; and put a ring on his hand, and shoes on his feet:”Luke 15:22

“For this my son was dead, and is alive again; he was lost, and is found. And they began to be merry.”Luke 15:24

“It was meet that we should make merry, and be glad: for this thy brother was dead, and is alive again; and was lost, and is found.”Luke 15:32

Let us name what is keeping you away

Look honestly at the son, because his story is more common than we admit. He did not stumble accidentally; he demanded his inheritance, walked out, and wasted everything on the kind of living he probably swore he would never regret, until the money ran out and the friends vanished and he found himself feeding pigs and envying their food. That is what sin's promises come to in the end, less than they advertised. But notice the turn: he came to himself. He stopped pretending it was working. That honest moment of seeing clearly, that is where the road home begins, and it is available to you wherever you have ended up.

How to actually come back

Here is the moment everything turns on. The son rehearsed a speech about being made a servant, and he arose, and came to his father. But when he was yet a great way off, his father saw him, and had compassion, and ran, and fell on his neck, and kissed him. The father was watching. He ran, which no dignified man of that culture would do, and he cut off the servant speech with a robe, a ring, and a feast. And he gave the reason: this my son was dead, and is alive again; he was lost, and is found. The whole story exists to tell you what God does when a wanderer turns home. He runs.

The Father who runs to meet you

The father in the story is God, and the running is real, but it cost something the parable only hints at. For God to run to you and not away from you, Jesus went out to the far country of the cross, gathering up the wandering and the wasted and the guilt, so the Father could welcome you with the account already settled. He came to seek and to save that which was lost, which is the whole point of the story and the whole point of His life. So the prodigal is you, and the father is God, and the way the two of you are reconciled is Jesus. Come to yourself, get up, and start home. He is already running.

Who is Jesus? · Begin with Jesus · Ask someone to pray with you

Father, I am the son who left and wasted what was good, and I have wondered whether there was any way back. Today I come to myself and stop pretending. I get up, and I start home. Thank You that You are watching the road, that You run to meet returning children, that You cut off the servant speech with a robe and a feast. I do not deserve it, and You give it anyway, because of Jesus. Receive me, Father. I am home. Amen.
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Questions people ask

What is the main point of the prodigal son parable?

The heart of the story is the father's extravagant, running welcome of a returning wanderer, which is why some call it the parable of the running father. Jesus told it to reveal God's posture toward sinners who come home: not grudging, not conditional, but joyful and immediate. The son's rebellion sets the stage, but the point is the father's love, which pictures how God receives anyone who turns back to Him.

Am I really like the prodigal son?

If you have wandered from God, taken what was good and wasted it, or ended up somewhere you never meant to be, then yes, the story is a mirror for you, as it has been for countless people. The point of the mirror is not to shame you but to show you the way home. Like the son, you can come to yourself, get up, and return, and find the father already running toward you.

How does the parable point to Jesus?

The father's ability to welcome the son with the account settled is made possible, in the fuller story of the gospel, by Jesus, who went to the cross to bear what the wandering deserved. The parable shows the Father's heart; the cross shows how far He went to open the door. Coming home to the Father, then, is finally coming to Jesus, who came to seek and to save the lost and to bring them to God.

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