Prayer & Presence
I Do Not Know How to Pray
If you do not know how to pray, here is the good news: nobody starts out knowing. Prayer is not a skill you have to master or a script you have to memorize. It is just talking to God as honestly as you can, in your own plain words. You can begin in the next ten seconds.
If this is you. Many people feel they should know how, and are embarrassed that they do not. You are in good company. Even Jesus friends asked him, teach us to pray. Not knowing is where almost everyone begins.
When they asked, Jesus did not hand them a complicated technique. He gave them a short, plain prayer, now called the Lord’s Prayer, and said the Spirit of God helps us pray even when we have no words at all.
What Jesus said, and what Scripture promises
A prayer you can pray right now
And if you want to know the One you are praying to
You do not have to believe anything yet. Prayer is simply turning toward God as honestly as you can, and Christians believe that in Jesus, God turned toward us first. You do not have to take our word for it. Read his own words quietly and see what you find. The Gospel of John is a gentle place to begin, and it costs you nothing but a little quiet and an honest look.
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Frequently asked questions
- What are the right words to pray?
- There are none. Prayer is honest speech to God in your own words. Even a single sentence, said and meant, is a full prayer.
- Is there a prayer I can just read?
- Yes. Many begin with the Lord's Prayer, the short prayer Jesus taught (Matthew 6:9-13). Reading it slowly and meaning it is a real prayer.
- What if I have no words at all?
- Then you can be silent, or say only God, help. Scripture says the Spirit helps us pray when we cannot find words (Romans 8:26).